私心不是一种终极的伦理概念,对此越加分析,概念就变得越加模糊。但作为托儿所里的一种现象,它却是非常明确的,且提供了颇有解决必要的问题。倘若对孩子听之任之,年长儿童就会夺走年幼儿童的玩具,要求成人给予他更多的注意,并会全然不顾年幼儿童的失望,一味追求自己的欲望。人的自我就像气体,若无外界压力的约束,就会不断地膨胀。在这方面,教育的目标是要让外界的压 Selfishness is not an ultimate ethical concept, and the more it is analyzed, the more blurred the concept becomes. But as a phenomenon in nurseries, it is very clear, and provides quite a solution to the necessary problems. If the children are allowed to do so, older children will take young children’s toys, asking adults to pay more attention to him and will completely ignore the disappointment of young children and blindly pursue their own desires. Human self resembles gas, and without the constraints of external pressure, it will constantly expand. In this regard, the goal of education is to keep the pressure on the outside world