再也不见:初三的某一天,我的同桌哭了,不知受了什么委屈。我安慰她,结果她反而哭得更厉害了。后来,她说她讨厌别人在她哭时安慰她。我当时感到莫名其妙。后来有一次我在班里哭了,一旁有人安慰我,他们越是安慰,我就越是难受,止不住眼泪。这时我才明白,我们心中的伤口迟早会愈合,但如果一个人安慰你,无异于揭开伤疤,只会让你很痛。我们能做的就是静静地陪在伤心的人身旁,陪伴胜过所有的安慰。 Never see again: One day on the third day, my cried at the same table, I do not know what grievances. I comforted her, but instead she cried even worse. Later, she said she hated people comforting her when she was crying. I was baffled at the time. When I was crying in my class one time, someone was comforted by me. The more comfort they were, the more I became sad and could not stop crying. At this moment, I realized that the wounds in our hearts will heal sooner or later, but if one comforts you, it will only make you feel painful. All we can do is to quietly be with the sad one, to be with them more than all comfort.