织绣自古以来就是最女性化的事情。土家族少女只有在遇见自己心仪的人时,才开始织自己的定情信物“西兰卡普”;汉族黄梅戏《天仙配》中也把“你耕田来我织布,我挑水来你浇园”看成最幸福的事情。然而,土家族的“西兰卡普”和《天仙配》中的“耕田织布”只是最底层人民的生活场景。中国古代社会士大夫阶层一直把握话语权,在他们看来,“西 Embroidery since ancient times is the most feminine thing. Only when they met their favorite people, Tujia girls began to weave their own creed ”Xi Lanka Pu“; Han Huangmei opera ”angel match“ also put ”you farming to me weaving, I pick Water to your garden “as the happiest thing. However, the ”farming weaving“ in Tujia’s ”Xi Lan Kapu“ and ”Tian Xian Pai“ is only the living scene of the lowest people. In the ancient Chinese society, the literati class always took the right to speak. In their view, the ”west."