人们在复杂的人际关系中,要想创造和维持更好的人际关系,让交流更顺利地进行,称赞表现起到了润滑油的作用。显著的男女性别差异是日语的一个重要特征。在交流的时候为了避免产生误解和摩擦,弄清楚在交谈中起到润滑油作用的称赞表现里存在的性别差异就显得尤为重要。探讨称赞对象及相邻对中的性别差异,以及产生这种差异的原因,很有必要。 In complex interpersonal relationships, people want to create and maintain better relationships and communicate more smoothly, applauding the performance of lubricants. Significant gender differences in men and women is an important feature of Japanese. To avoid misunderstandings and friction during the exchange, it is important to understand the gender differences in the complimenting performance of the oil during the conversation. It is necessary to explore the gender differences between the object of praise and the adjacent pairs as well as the reasons for such differences.