中学阶段是一个人一生中非常重要的时期。在这一时期不仅生理上生长发育迅速,变化急剧,心理上的发展更是突飞猛进,表现在认知、情感、意志等方面都有良性的大幅度地提升和发展,个性倾向明显分化。加上现代社会环境与家庭环境日益复杂,导致中学生心理发展上的矛盾也越来越多,比较突出的可概括为以下三方面: High school stage is a very important period in a person’s life. During this period, not only the physical growth and rapid development, rapid change, psychological development is by leaps and bounds, manifested in the cognitive, emotional, will and other aspects of a healthy and substantial increase and development, personality tendency obvious differentiation. Coupled with the increasingly complex environment and family environment in modern society, there are also more and more contradictions in the psychological development of secondary school students. The more prominent ones can be summarized as follows: