一位哲人说过:“没有交际能力的人,就象陆地上的船,永远到不了人生的大海”。人们学习知识,进入社会,了解自我,获得尊重和爱情,都是在人际交往中发生的。没有与别人的交往,人类就无法生存。 当前,我国加快改革开放,市场经济大潮滚滚而来,各种机遇和挫折也纷至沓来,面对这种激烈的竞争和日益增大的社会心理压力,人们就更需要增加交往的数量和质量。培根在《论友谊》中写道:“如果一个人有心事却无法向朋友诉说,那么他必然成为损伤自己身心的人”。因此,在现实生活中,无论有多么强的能力,多么好的条件,如果没有良好的人际关系,既无法取得事 A philosopher said: “Those who have no communication skills, like ships on land, will never reach the sea of ​​life.” People learn knowledge, get into society, understand themselves, get respect and love, all in interpersonal relationships. Without human interaction, humans can not survive. At present, China hasten its reform and opening up and the tide of the market economy has come along with all kinds of opportunities and setbacks. After facing such fierce competition and ever-increasing social and psychological pressure, people need to increase the quantity and quality of contacts. Bacon wrote in Friendship on Friendship: “If a man has a mind but can not tell a friend, then he must become a man who will hurt himself and his body.” Therefore, in real life, no matter how strong the ability, how good conditions, without good relationships, neither can get things