我是1971年出生的独生子。成年后为了前途,我南下广州生活工作。当时只考虑了自己的感受,谁曾想独生子女远离父母工作,风险很大。2005年,父亲查出大病,且已是晚期,必须得做手术。按就近照顾原则,当然是接到广州来看病最好,我可以一面工作,一面照料父亲。但从经济角度考虑,父亲的公费医疗在湖南才有效,而我又是中低层收入者。生死大事,固然不能以省钱为第一,但也不能多花冤枉钱。权衡后的结果是: I was the only child born in 1971. For the future as an adult, I live in Guangzhou south. At that time only considered their own feelings, who had wanted their only child away from their parents, a great risk. In 2005, his father found a serious illness, and is already late, you must have surgery. According to the nearest care principle, of course, is the best to receive medical treatment in Guangzhou, I can work while looking after his father. However, from an economic point of view, his father’s public health medicine is only valid in Hunan, and I am a middle and low income earner. Life and death events, of course, can not save money as the first, but can not spend more money wasted. The result of the trade-off is: