记得有位暂人说过,人生最大的敌人不是别人,而是我们自己。一个人只有善于吐故纳新,敢于颠覆自我,乐于改变自我,才能在瞬息万变的环境中,不断完善自我,不被时代所淘汰,赢得真正的成长。颠覆自我,先要学会包容。包容是一种生存的智慧,处事的哲学。正所谓,海纳百川,有容乃大。学会包容,就要主动改变固有的、长期以自我为中心的思维方式。学会包容,就是要遇事能静下心来,说话时少一些刻薄,多一些对他人的理解和尊重,少一些无畏的指责 I remember someone who said that the biggest enemy of life is not others, but ourselves. Only a person is good at spit new entrants, dare to subvert themselves and be willing to change themselves in order to constantly improve themselves in a rapidly changing environment, not be eliminated by the times, to win real growth. Subvert self, we must learn to tolerate. Tolerance is a philosophy of living wisdom and doing things. As the saying goes, tolerate rivers, there is content is great. Learning to be inclusive, we must take the initiative to change the inherent, long-term self-centered way of thinking. Learn to tolerate, is to be able to calm down when the case of trouble, speak less harsh, more understanding and respect of others, less fearless accusations