十三四岁的孩子“难管难教”,这是许多父母的共同感受。这个时期的孩子,有和父母顶嘴的,有疏远父母沉闷不语的,有不爱学习的,有结交不三不四的朋友惹事生非的……凡此种种不驯表现,令父母大伤脑筋。通常的看法,孩子13岁以后,便进入了“青春反叛期”。青春期常常是父母与孩子感情发生转变的过渡时期。青少年需要在自己的头脑中和别人的 Thirteen-year-old children “difficult to teach difficult to teach”, which is the common feelings of many parents. This period of children, and parents talk to the mouth, there are alienated parents boring, there is no love to learn, and friends from all corners of the country to stir up troubles ...... All this disrespectful performance, so that their parents hurt Brains. The usual view is that when a child is 13 years old, he enters the “youth rebel period.” Adolescence is often a transitional period in which feelings change between parents and children. Teens need to be in their own mind and others