我儿子6岁了,在上学前班,各方面发展都不错。在家能说会道,做智力题、玩玩具反应快,想像力丰富,来了客人会热情招呼,大人小孩都挺喜欢他。可是最近我发现他在和小朋友玩的时候,如果哪个小朋友提出什么新玩法、新动作,而他不会的话,他不是积极地去学,或者参与,反而显得很不自然,用“我会什么什么,你却不会”这样的话来掩饰自己的弱点。他好像很担心被别人笑话。后来我还了解到,他在幼儿园里碰到老师提问时会害怕得躲到桌子下面,事实上,这个问题他是能回答的,他就是不敢在老师和同学面前表达。另外,他很喜欢小朋友到家里来玩,也和他们相处得不错,但是不愿意让我带他去别人家里,好像害怕别人会伤害他似的。这些现象是否说明我的孩子缺乏自信呢?我该如何让他勇敢地面对别人,大胆地表现自己,自如地做他自己想做的事呢? 甘肃礼县尤雅 My son is 6 years old and has good development in all aspects of school. Speaking at home, do intellectual problems, play toys fast response, imaginative, come to the guests will be greeted, adults and children are quite like him. But recently I found out that when he was having fun with a child, he would not actively learn or participate if he did not get any new games and new moves. What, you will not "in such words to cover up their weaknesses. He seems very worried about being joked by others. Later, I also learned that when he met a teacher in kindergarten, he was scared to hide under the table. In fact, he was able to answer this question. He did not dare to express it before the teacher and his classmates. In addition, he likes children to play at home, get along well with them, but do not want me to take him to someone else’s home, as if afraid of others will hurt him. Do these phenomena indicate that my child is not self-confident? How can I make him brave to face others, boldly express himself and do what he wants to do freely?