目前我国婚姻家庭观念处于多元混杂的状况，既有相当强的传统观念，在年青人中又有不少“现代观念”；既有不少健康文明的成分，也有不少损人利己却又貌似有理的“理论依据”；既有戕害人们生活与灵魂的糟粕，也有亟待廓清的糊涂模糊观念和行为模式……总之，社会生活中的... At present, the concept of marriage and family in our country is in a mixed situation. There are not only quite strong traditional concepts but also a lot of “modern concepts” among the young people. There are not only many healthy and civilized elements but also many self-serving and plausible people “Theoretical basis”; not only harmful to people’s lives and the soul of the dross, but also need to be clarified confused fuzzy concepts and patterns of behavior ... ... In short, social life ...