红白喜事随礼，是我国千百年来的传统习俗。清代时，湖广总督张之洞有一年回家探亲，正赶上他的一个本家姑姑谢世了。出殡那天，张之洞在灵棚前行了跪拜礼，马上便有人把他领进了账房。账房先生问道：“张大人今日上多少礼呀？”张之洞不慌不忙从身上摸出四两银子，轻轻放在桌? Wedding ceremony with red and white, is the traditional customs of our country for thousands of years. During the Qing dynasty, Zhang Zhidong, Governor of Huguang, came home to visit relatives one year and was caught up with his own aunt. On the day of the funeral, Chang Chih-tung bowed down before the spiritual studio, and someone immediately led him to the account. Mr. Zhang asked: “How many etiquette adults today?” Zhang Zhidong unhurried from the body to find four or four silver, gently on the table?