就像问一个人何时坠入爱河一样,理想的确立之路也是难以说清道明的。但或许,多多少少,又并非完全没有痕迹。就比如说,一些碎片式的生活经历串联在一起,也许潜移默化之中就决定了一个人的命运。我家所在的地方是一个退休军人集中居住的小区。放眼望去,目之所及多半是与爷爷奶奶年龄相仿的老人们。还记得大约是十几年前了。那时候,不经意间看到小区门口的小黑板上用白颜色写了大大的粉笔字,不谙世事的我就如同平时“显示”认字本领一般, Just as when asking a person to fall in love, the ideal way to establish is hard to say clearly. But perhaps, more or less, but not without any trace. For example, some fragmented life experience in series together, perhaps subtly decides the fate of a person. The place where my family lives is a community inhabited by retired soldiers. Looking around, mostly due to the age of grandparents and older people. Remember about a dozen years ago. At that time, inadvertently saw the small blackboard at the entrance of a small white color wrote a big chalk words, I am inexperienced in the world as usual “display ” literacy skills in general,