每一个人都有一只看不见的水桶和一把看不见的勺子。水桶满溢会使人乐观积极,水桶见底会令人意志空虚。当我们用我们的勺子为别人的水桶加水时——用我们的言行增加他们的积极情感——我们也在为自己的水桶加水;当我们用勺子从别人水桶里舀水时——用我们的言行减少他们的积极情感——我们也在给自己的水桶放水。我们每时每刻都面临一个选择:我们可以为各自的水桶加水,也可以从各自的水桶舀水。这是一个至 Everyone has an invisible bucket and an invisible spoon. Bucket overflow will make people optimistic and positive, bottoming bucket will make people empty. When we use our spoons to add water to others' buckets - increase their positive emotions with our words and actions - we are also adding water to our buckets; when we use a spoon to scoop water from other buckets - with our Words and deeds reduce their positive emotions - we are also giving water to our buckets. We have a choice every hour of the day: we can add water to our own bucket or we can scoop it from our own bucket. This is one to