记得有一年夏天,我穿了一条吊带连衣裙,外加一件小披肩。不到一个星期,我们班十几个女生都穿上了这样的裙子。有一位同事开玩笑说:“谁教的学生就像谁。”当时我并未在意,可细细想来,这并不只是一句玩笑话,其中确有几分道理。每当我用和风细雨滋润学生的心田时,学生还我的是祥和与宁静;可当我用狂风暴雨威慑学生的心灵时,学生还我的是焦躁与不安。 I remember one summer, I wore a suspenders dress, plus a small shawl. Less than a week, more than a dozen girls in our class wore such skirts. One colleague joked: “Who does the students like?” I did not mind at the time, but I thought carefully. This is not just a joke, but it does make a point. Whenever I use the meager rain to moisten the hearts of students, the students return me to peace and quiet; but when I use the storm to deter students’ minds, the students still feel anxious and restless.