这是不幸遇上这种情况的女性最难以启齿的,她们往往需要鼓起很大的勇气才提出困惑了很久的问题:“我们还在蜜月期,但他很少主动要求做爱,我主动要求时他总说累”;“孩子几岁后,我开始有了主动的性欲需求,但我们做爱的次数比以前大大减少了,我受的教育让我很难主动开口提出要求”;“有一次,当我主动要求时,他说‘一 It is unfortunate that women who encounter such situations are the most unspeakable. They often need to muster a great deal of courage to ask long-awaited questions: ”We are still in a honeymoon, but he seldom takes the initiative to ask for sex, and I take the initiative When he asked, he always said tired. “” When I was a child, I started to have active sexual desire, but the number of times we made love was greatly reduced than before. My education made it very hard for me to take the initiative to speak out. “” ; "Once, when I asked for it, he said