到咨询室进行职业咨询的人当中,八成以上都要谈到人际关系。很多人因为人际关系不到位,而给自己的职业留下了不足与遗憾。他们感觉和下面的人关系都不错,但和上级的关系总会出现问题。而和上级的关系质量,对一个职业人的影响远比一般的关系要大。从心理学的角度讲,与比自己弱势 Of the people who come to counseling rooms for career counseling, more than 80% should talk about relationships. Many people because of personal relationships are not in place, while leaving their own professional lack and regret. They feel good with the people below, but there is always a problem with their superiors. And the quality of relations with superiors, the impact on a professional far greater than the general relationship. From a psychological point of view, and more vulnerable than ourselves