陈恺妈妈的烦恼:“我家恺恺近来特别好占上风,总爱跟同伴争比,从球踢得多远,到家里有多少玩具,都要胜人一筹。昨天他竟然说‘我换牙了,航航没有’,弄得我们哭笑不得。孩子太争强好胜好吗?”主持:这的确让父母左右为难。淡化竞争意识吧,孩子将来是否会处于劣势?一味强调竞争,又怕给孩子造成心理压力,还担心孩子变得功利和不讨人喜欢。那么,父母该怎样看待孩子间的竞争呢? Chen Kai mother’s troubles: “My family Kai Kai recently particularly good upper hand, always love to compete with his companions, how far from the ball, how many toys to have at home, have to excel. Yesterday, he said No, no navigation, confused us dumbfounding. Is the child too victorious? ”Moderator: This indeed makes parents dilemma. To dilute the sense of competition, will the child be disadvantaged in the future? By emphasizing competition, he is afraid to cause psychological pressure on the child and to worry about the child becoming utilitarian and unlovable. So, parents how to treat children’s competition?