有句挺无奈的话:婚姻是爱情的坟墓。 为什么?因为结婚前后的男女并不一样:结婚前太“勤奋”,结婚后又太“懒惰”。也正因为确实存在着这个勤奋与懒隋之间的巨大落差,才有了上述坟墓一说! 打个比方,结婚前的男女是在“打江山”,他们孜孜不倦,从不敢怠慢一丝半点,而一旦结了婚“坐了江山”,也就有了种功成名就的感觉。殊不知,正是这种功成名就理应“歇一歇”的感觉,在悄悄断送着原先那个最神圣的期盼! Quite helpless words: marriage is the tomb of love. Why? Because before and after marriage, men and women are not the same: too hard before marriage, married too “lazy.” It is precisely because there is indeed a huge gap between this diligence and lazy Sui, only the grave said! For example, the men and women before marriage is “playing Jiangshan”, they tirelessly, never neglect slightest slightest, Once married “sit in the country,” it also has the feeling of martial arts fame. As everyone knows, it is this fame that should be “a break” feeling quietly ruin the most sacred hope!