宠辱不惊,是一门生活艺术,更是一种处世智慧。人生在世,生活中有褒有贬,有毁有誉,有荣有辱,这是人生的寻常际遇,无足为奇。古人云:君子坦荡荡。为君子者,无妨宠亦坦然,辱亦坦然,豁达大度,一笑置之。得人信宠时勿轻狂,莫忘“贺者在门,吊者在闾”;受人侮辱时忌激愤,犹记“吊者在门,贺者在闾”。如此清醒应对,便不难达到“不以物喜,不以己悲”的思想境界。古往今 Petty shocked, is a living art, but also a living wisdom. Life is alive, there are praises and derogatory life, ruined reputation, glory and honor, this is an ordinary life experience, not surprising. The ancients said: Gentleman magnanimous. As a gentleman, no harm pet also calm, shame also calm, open-mindedness, a smile set. Do not be fooled when people believe pet frivolous, forget “He is in the door, hanging in the Lu ”; by an insult avoid bogey, still remember “hanging at the door, who are in the Lu.” So awake to deal with, it is not difficult to achieve “no joy, not to be sad ” ideological realm. Past and present