在杭州灵隐寺中有这样一副对联:“人生哪能多如意,万事只求半称心。”这副对联语言朴素直白,却含有深刻的哲理。现实生活中,人人都希望万事如意。其实,这只不过是人们的美好祝福,反而那些凡事只求“半称心”的人,更容易求得幸福和快乐。如果事事都求完美,都要求称心如意,那只能使自己陷入痛苦与无奈之中。 There is such a pair of couplets in Lingyin Temple in Hangzhou: “How can we be happy in life, and everything is only half-hearted.” “This pair of couplets is plain and straightforward, but contains profound philosophies. In real life, everyone hopes all the best. In fact, this is only a good blessing for people, but those who seek only ”semi-sweetheart " people, easier to find happiness and happiness. If everything strives for perfection, all require pleasing, which can only make oneself into pain and helplessness.