在有些家庭,孩子听父母的话,能自觉地将家长的要求转化为自己学习和成长的内在需要,父母对他们似乎不需要操多少心。这其中的一个主要原因是亲子关系密切,家长在孩子心目中有比较高的威信,孩子喜欢家长,自然,家长的话就容易被孩子所接受,家长对孩子的要求就容易转化为孩子的内在需要。 In some families, when children listen to their parents, they can consciously turn the parents’ demands into the intrinsic needs of their own learning and growth. Parents seem to do not need to exercise much care toward them. One of the main reasons is the close parent-child relationship. Parents in children’s minds have a relatively high degree of prestige. Children like parents. Naturally, parents are easily accepted by their children. Parents’ requirements for children can easily be transformed into their own inner needs. .