据说,中美日三国曾联合做过一项调查,比较父母在孩子们心中的地位。调查结果显示,美日两国中学生在所佩服的人物中,前三位中必有一位父亲或母亲,而中国的上千名学生在回答自己“所推崇的榜样”问题时,大多数中学生把父母排除在前六名之外,而其中母亲的地位更是往后推。三个国家共同调查得出的结论是,中国的父母家庭教育并不成功,这一结论怕是让中国的父母们够伤心的。 It is said that the three countries in China, the United States and Japan jointly conducted a survey to compare the status of their parents in the hearts of their children. The survey results show that among the top three characters of the high school students in the United States and Japan, there must be one fathers or mothers, while the thousands of students in China answered most of their “favored role models” Middle school students exclude their parents from the top six, and their mothers’ status is pushed back. The joint investigation conducted by the three countries concluded that China’s parents and family education did not succeed and that this conclusion is afraid to make the parents in China sad enough.