在培养孩子的过程中,我们曾一度有意识地注重其品质的培养,从小教她勇敢、勤劳、友爱、善良。她刚刚入托时,我们还信心百倍,摩拳擦掌,但当她上小学后,尤其是看到她和部分开发较早的学生间的差距时,我们又手足无措,信心全无。常常步入父辈们对自己教育方式的覆辙——喝斥、责备,成绩 In cultivating children, we once consciously focused on the cultivation of their qualities and taught her brave, industrious, friendly and kindhearted. When she was just admitted to her home, we were confident and gearing up, but we were overwhelmed with confidence when she was in primary school, especially when she saw the gap between her and some of her earlier students. Often into the parents of their own way of education mistakes - drinking reproach, blame, achievement