台湾心理学家黄月霞认为:“倾听是有效沟通所必备的元素,它是一种接纳的语言。”倾听是一个积极地接受、分析和理解对方的过程。具有较强倾听能力的人,不仅人际关系很好,而且在倾听中也会学到许多知识,接收到许多信息,分享他人的喜怒哀乐,感受世间的苦辣酸甜,使自己变得更加成熟。父母有效地倾听孩子的述说,不仅能走近孩子、真实地了解孩子 Huang Yuexia, a Taiwanese psychologist, said: “Listening is an essential element of effective communication and it is an accepted language.” Listening is a process of actively accepting, analyzing and understanding each other. People who have a strong listening ability are not only well-connected, but also learn a lot from listening, receiving lots of information, sharing the joys and sorrows of others, feeling the bitterness of the world and making themselves more mature. Parents listen effectively to their children’s statements and not only can they approach their children, they know their children in a real way