嫉妒,是人们时常经历的一种情感体验,几乎凡人皆有,概莫能外,一般不会有太大的危害。但如果嫉妒情绪过度膨胀,失去了控制,那就非常危险。嫉妒心理表现在一般人身上,是看到别人经努力学习,勤奋工作出了成果,不是去效仿追赶,而是讽刺挖苦,冷嘲热讽;看到别人能力超过自己,就满腹怨恨,醋意大发,无法接受现实;看到别人与群众关系密切,深得领导信任,就视为障碍,不顾公论去挑拨离间,造谣诋毁;甚至人家添置了高档家具、新潮服装,自己也会不快和愤懑。表现在领导干部身上,则是害怕别人超过自己,奉行“武大郎开店”的原则,身材比自己高的人不予提用,设置种种关卡,不让别人出头;对下属只使用,不培养,一旦出了差错总是极力埋怨,推卸责任,小题大做,压得对方喘不过气来。 Jealousy, is a kind of emotional experience that people often experience, almost mortal, no exception, generally do not have much harm. But if jealousy is over-bloated and out of control, it is very dangerous. Jealousy psychology is manifested in the average person, is to see others hard-working, hard-working out of the result, not to follow the catch-up, but ironic sarcasm, cynicism; to see others ability to surpass themselves, full of resentment, jealous, unacceptable Reality; see others and the masses close, won the trust of leadership, as an obstacle, regardless of public opinion to sow discord, rumors denigrate; even people acquired high-end furniture, trendy clothing, they will be unhappy and resentful. The manifestation of the leading cadres who are afraid of others over their own, adhere to the “Wu Dalang shop” principle, tall than their own people are not mentioned, set the various levels, do not let others succeed; subordinates only use, do not train, once Out of error is always extremely complain, shirk its responsibility, fuss, pressure over the other breathless.