最让家长无奈的事情恐怕是眼睁睁看着原本齐头并进的孩子们渐渐开始发生分化,而自己的孩子偏偏表现欠佳。此时的家长必定焦急不已,可能会时常借助于批评、教导、监督,希望孩子能因此重整旗鼓,加速赶上。但通常这样做于事无补,孩子可能会出现一步落后、步步落后的现象,就好像多米诺骨牌一样,兵败如山,一蹶不振。事实上,进步需要的是内在动力的驱动。如何能保留、激发孩子的内在动力,让他们自信、阳光地享受学习,享受生活,也许家长需 Perhaps most helpless parents matter is to watch as the children go hand in hand gradually began to diverify, but their children did not perform well. At this point, parents will certainly be anxious. They may often resort to criticism, guidance and supervision in the hope that their children will regain their momentum and catch up soon. But usually this does not help, the child may be one step backward, step by step backward phenomenon, just like dominoes, defeated, sluggish. In fact, what is needed for progress is the motivation of the inner power. How to retain and motivate children’s internal motivation so that they can enjoy themselves and enjoy their lives with confidence and sunshine