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房,是睡觉的地方,也是夫妻做爱的场所。因此,古人称做爱为“房事”。人们在习惯上有以“睡觉”代指“房事”的,既是隐喻也表明了两者密不可分的关系。倘若这一关系(睡与性)失调,便会导致睡与性的障碍或危害。以“性”消愁,愁更愁李力患了失眠,上床后久久不能入睡,于是以做爱改善睡眠。然而,李力以“性”促睡,不仅未能改善睡眠,久之还因“疲劳战”导致性爱质量下降,并引发妻子逆反和厌烦。妻子的态度构成的新的心理冲突,又加重了李力的失眠。在夫妻生活中,还有的人不顾对方的睡眠需要,希望通过性爱的欢愉冲淡、消除由工作或生活带给自己的不良情绪,或以此缓和、消除夫妻矛盾和隔阂,改善夫妻关系等。
Room, is a place to sleep, but also a place where couples make love. Therefore, the ancients called love as “room ”. People are accustomed to “sleep ” on behalf of “room ”, both a metaphor also shows that the two are inseparable relationship. If this relationship (sleeping and sexual) disorders, it will lead to sleep or sexual obstacles or hazards. To “Sex ” eliminate worry, worry more worried Li Li suffering from insomnia, go to bed for a long time can not sleep, so to improve the sleep sex. However, Li Li to “sex ” to sleep, not only failed to improve sleep, for a long time because of “fatigue war ” led to a decline in the quality of sex, and lead his wife to reverse and tired. Wife’s attitude constitutes a new psychological conflict, but also increased the insomnia of Li. In the life of the couple, there are others who, regardless of their sleep needs, hope to dilute the joy of sex and eliminate their negative emotions brought by work or life, or to ease the conflicts and estrangements between husband and wife and improve their marital relations .