“最家长”读者问:我教初一。我班有一个男生喜欢一个女生。这个男生总是靠近她,想接触她,却被女生严厉拒绝。但是男生还是纠缠,女生对他很反感,很看不起他。结果现在这个男生总用特别难听的话骂这个女生,一看见她就找茬骂,还做伸中指这样的下流动作。我试图让他们合好,但总是不行,我该怎么办?方刚回复:如果不解决他们之间的根本问题,不让那个男生认识到自己犯了怎样严重的错误,从而心悦诚服地向女生道歉,他们就不可能真正合好。这件事的根本原因,在于男生的错误。但他只是一个初一的男孩子 “The most parents ” reader Q: I teach the first day. A boy in my class likes a girl. The boy is always close to her, want to touch her, but was severely rejected by girls. But the boys are still entangled, girls are very disgusted with him, it looks down on him. The result now the boy always scolded the girl with a particularly ugly words, saw her to find fault curse, but also to do middle finger means this dirty action. Fang Gang reply: If you do not solve the fundamental problems between them, do not let the boy realize that they made a serious mistake, so sincerely apologize to the girls , They can not really fit well. The fundamental reason for this is the boy’s mistake. But he is just a first-day boy