一、回避,闪开对方的言语攻势,妙转话题,退让之中巧隐“不”。《孙子兵法》说道:“不战而屈人之兵,善之善者也。”意即没有正面交锋,就使对方败下阵去,这是好中最好的,在很多时候,回避,可以避免许多无谓的争辩,从而心平气和,从容出策。利用回避让对方认识到所提要求不合情理,拒 First, to avoid, get rid of each other’s speech offensive, wonderful conversation, retreat among Qiao Yin “no.” “The Art of War,” said: “The soldiers do not fight the war, good good also.” Means that there is no positive confrontation, the other defeated, it is the best, in many cases, to avoid, you can Avoid many unnecessary arguments, so calm, calmly. Make use of avoidance to make the other party realize that the request is unreasonable, refuse