“好的关系胜过许多教育”是本刊总编辑孙云晓提出的一条教育名言。其一提出就得到了学者和家长的认同。好的关系在亲子间尤其重要,一是因为有了好的关系才有好的沟通,父母的所思所悟才能被孩子接收;二是因为好的关系是亲子的共同追求,它会给彼此带来幸福感,哪个父(母)都不会是因为想多一个仇人才把孩子带到这个世界上,哪个孩子也不希望本应当是最相爱的人却仇人般相处。世上的一般规律是越有价值的东西,往往越需要认真呵护。亲子关系因孩子的出生天然 “Good relationship is better than many education ” is an educational famous quote by editor-in-chief Sun Yunxiao. As soon as it was put forward, it got the approval of scholars and parents. Good relationship between parents and children is particularly important, first, because there is a good relationship to have good communication, parents can only be understood by their children’s understanding; Second, because a good relationship is the common pursuit of parent-child, it will give each other Bring happiness, which parent (parent) will not be because they want more than an enemy to bring their children to this world, which children do not want this should be the most lover but enemy-like get along. The general law of the world is more valuable things, often more need careful care. Parent-child relationship because of the child’s natural birth