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海军某飞行团战士金铭战友们一起摸爬滚打,患难与共,能在一起工作、生活,是人生难得的机缘,应该百倍珍惜。然而,我发现最近一段时间以来,老是会看不惯身边战友的一些行为,老把别人往坏处想。为此,我非常苦闷,不知道自己怎么成了这样的人?心理专家:小金,你总是对战友看不惯,这是一种不正常的心理表现。那么,如何克服这种毛病呢?一方面,要培养乐观豁达的心态。只有心胸似海的人,才能理解他人、包容他人,特别是在看不惯面前表现出大度。但对于原则是非问题,就另当别论了。另一方面,要正确地评价和对待他人。生活在连队这个大家庭里,每名同志的经历、性格、爱好和能力都不会完全相同,我们要接受战友的缺点。
A naval mission fighter Jinming comrades fought together, suffering together, can work together, life is a rare opportunity, should cherish. However, I have found that for some time now, I have always been unfriendly to some of my comrades-in-arms who often think of others as bad. To this end, I am very depressed, do not know how to become such a person? Psychologist: Xiaojin, you are always unbearable comrades, this is an abnormal psychological performance. So, how to overcome this problem? On the one hand, we must cultivate an optimistic and open-minded attitude. Only those people with a deep heart can understand others and tolerate others, especially if they are out of sight. But the principle is not a problem, is another matter. On the other hand, we must correctly evaluate and treat others. Living in the company of a large company, every comrade’s experience, character, hobbies and abilities will not be exactly the same. We must accept the faults of comrade-in-arms.