“我是因为爱他才跟他结婚的”,相信大部分女人都会理直气壮地这么说。不过爱是不是等于相互理解,就会考倒一堆人了;而之所以用“理解”两个字,是要强调理性的了解,而且是大面积、大格局的了解,不只看眼前这一个男人,还要懂得整个“男性生态”。首先就拿男女结婚的动机来说真是大不同。“我朋友问我到现 “I married him because I love him,” I believe most women will confidently say so. But love is not equal to mutual understanding, will test a bunch of people; and the reason to use the word “understanding” is to emphasize the understanding of reason, but also a large area, the pattern of understanding, not just look at this man , But also understand the whole “male ecology.” First of all, the motives for getting married are really different. "My friend asked me to come