“仁爱”是儒家思想的精髓,积极发掘和发扬儒家思想的精髓,不仅有利于辅导员自身素质的提高,对辅导员队伍建设也有着重要的意义。本文认为作为学生管理的重要组成部分,辅导员要提高自身修养、规范言行举止、不断学习、积极进取、充分认识辅导员工作的重要性,树立全心全意的奉献精神,共同致力于高职院校的辅导员队伍建设。 “Benevolence ” is the essence of Confucianism, and actively explore and carry forward the essence of Confucianism, not only conducive to the improvement of the quality of counselors, but also of great importance to the construction of counselors. In this paper, as an important part of student management, counselors should improve their self-cultivation, standardize demeanor, keep learning, be enterprising and fully understand the importance of counselor’s work, establish dedication dedication, work together in higher vocational colleges Counselor team building.