记得听过冯巩的一段相声,谈到的男人和女人在困境中的迥异表现时,概括得很精辟:男人绝望的时候说我要活下去,女人绝望时候嘴上说我可怎么活啊,其实根本就没往心里去。青春期的孩子,生活简单而有规律,极少承受重大灾难,但在他们同样会陷入某种困境,无论是情感上,生活上,还是学习上,当面对突如奇来的变故时,男生和女生之间的“性别差异”也凸现出来。女生往往成了软弱的代名词,仿佛女人天生就是被保护的,男人哭吧哭吧不是罪的呼声此起彼伏,仿佛男人也不在意味着坚强。 I remember hearing a section of vocal commendation Feng, men and women talked about the performance of different in the predicament, summed up very brilliant: a man desperate to say I want to survive, a woman desperate mouth that I can live ah, in fact Did not go to my heart. Adolescent children, simple and regular life, rarely suffer a major disaster, but they will also fall into a dilemma, whether it is emotional, life, or learning, when faced with sudden unexpected changes, the boys and The “gender difference” between girls also highlights. Girls often become synonymous with weakness, as if a woman is born to be protected, the man cried and cried, not the crime of sin one after another, as if a man does not mean strong.