我对“成熟”这个词常常心怀痛恨。开心了想高声唱两句,不行,人群面前要稳重,否则便是不成熟:开会了领导发言说得实在长,休息期间想寻机提个建议,不行,领导面前要隐忍,否则便是不成熟;工作中生活中受了委屈想发表一篇日志出出气,不行,在公开的空间不能意气用事,否则便是不成熟……成熟二字使人草木皆兵,正如卢梭所言: I often hate the word “mature”. Happy to want to sing aloud, no, the crowd before you want to be stable, otherwise it is immature: the meeting spoke really speak for the leadership, during the rest you want to find a chance to make a suggestion, no, to be patient before the leadership, otherwise it is not Mature; work at work suffered a grudge Want to publish a log out of gas, no, in the open space can not be used to things, otherwise it is immature ... Mature word to make people and soldiers, as Rousseau said: