“他人就是地狱”是西方一位哲人的名言。但这句名言常常被人望文生义地理解为他人的存在与自我的存在绝对矛盾,互不相容,为了维护和发展自我,就必须排斥他人,甚至损害他人。其实,这完全是一种误解。“他人就是地狱”的本义是,当一个人习惯于从别人的 “Others are hell” is a famous philosopher in the West. However, this famous quotation is often understood by people in the text as the existence of others and their own existence is absolutely contradictory, incompatible, in order to maintain and develop themselves, we must exclude others, or even harm others. In fact, this is totally a misunderstanding. The original meaning of “others are hell” is that when one is accustomed to others