父母容易对孩子犯的错误是,下意识里总把孩子当成是无知无觉的“小不点儿”,没有意识到,尽管他们是孩子,他们一样是一个独立的生命个体,需要爱,更需要被尊重。有的父母亲为了缓解自己内心的焦虑并且寻求安慰和帮助,他们往往会向亲朋好友诉说自己对孩子的种种担忧和忧虑。于是不经意间,就会把孩子的事情传了出去。亲戚朋友凑在一起,往往又爱把东家长李家短的话拿出来说,甚至是添油加醋。就这样,一些家事最后可能变成了在整个家族造成不良影响的流言。 The mistake parents make easy for their children is that they unconsciously treat their children as ignorant and ignorant ones. They do not realize that although they are children, they are like an independent living individual and need love and need to be respected . In order to relieve their anxiety and seek comfort and help, some parents often tell their friends and family about their worries and worries about their children. So inadvertently, it will be the child’s things passed out. Relatives and friends together, often love the parents of Lee short words out to say, or even exaggerated. In this way, some of the family members may eventually become rumors that have an adverse effect on the entire family.