在与幸福相关的各种因素中,爱无疑是幸福的最重要源泉之一。然而,什么是爱呢?当我们说到爱的时候,我们往往更多想到的是被爱。这并不奇怪。我们从小就生活在父母的宠爱之下,因而太习惯于被爱了,大小到大,我们渴望得到许多的爱。当我们遇到困难时,我们希望有人一伸援助之手。当我们经受痛苦时,我们希望有人与我们分担。我们希望我们的亲人和朋友常常惦记着我们,有福与我们同享。在恋爱和婚姻中,我们也非常在乎被爱,对于自己在爱人心目中的地位十分敏感。我们自 Among the various factors associated with happiness, love is undoubtedly one of the most important sources of happiness. However, what is love? When we talk about love, we often think more of being loved. This is not surprising. We grew up living under the patronage of parents, so too accustomed to being loved, the size of large, we are eager to get a lot of love. When we encounter difficulties, we hope someone will give it a helping hand. When we suffer, we want someone to share with us. We hope our loved ones and friends will always remember us and bless us with us. In love and marriage, we also care deeply about being loved and are very sensitive to our own position in our lover’s heart. We are