学术工作和孩子,二者之中哪个更重要?随着年华老去,是否应当放弃终身职位工作,挽救自己的婚姻?这两个问题的答案因性别和个人价值观不同而不同。有些人认为孩子和婚姻更有价值,有些人则认为工作/职业更重要;有些人认为个人发展应当被放在第一位,有些人则提出家庭具有优先权。 Which of the two is more important for academic work and children? As time goes on, should life-long job be resigned and the marriage be saved? The answers to these two questions vary according to the gender and the values ​​of the individual. Some people think that children and marriages are more valuable, while others think that jobs / occupations are more important; some think personal development should be given the highest priority while others suggest that families have priority.