人的相貌、家境等等先天条件是无法改变的,但至少,内心状态、精神意志完全是自己控制的。心态,最终决定人生的高度。炎热的夏天,英国一大型教堂里,牧师正在布道,但由于时间过长,天气闷热,许多教徒变得昏昏欲睡。可是,有一位绅士看上去却精神抖擞,腰背挺直,专注倾听。出了教堂,有人问这位绅士:“先生,每个人都在打瞌睡,为什么你能听得那么 Human appearance, family circumstances and other innate conditions can not be changed, but at least, the inner state of mind is completely under their own control. Mentality, the final decision of life height. The hot summer, a large British church, priests are sermon, but because of the long time, hot weather, many believers become drowsy. However, a gentleman looks energetic, back straight, focus on listening. Out of the church, someone asked the gentleman: ”Sir, everyone is dozing off, so why do you hear that?