方大大年长父亲两岁,从爷爷辈起,他们家与我们家就毗邻而居。听父亲说,方大大家三代贫农,家境苦寒,因为备不齐婚娶的彩礼,后来他干脆娶了一个从河南逃荒过来的女人做老婆,连姓什么都不知道,又因为我们两家仅一墙之隔,所以我从小就叫她隔壁婶。当初我们两家都是三间瓦房,不仅房屋的走向、外观甚至格局都完全一样,而且他们家和我们家还共用一堵土坯墙。记得小时候每天晚上我伏在东厢房的案桌上做作业,总能听到隔壁方大大家 The older, older father, two years old, grew up from his grandfather, and their home lives close to our home. Listen to my father said that Fang Dawei three generations of poor peasants, family bitter cold, because of marrying bride’s wedding, and later he simply married a woman fleeing from Henan to do his wife, even surnamed do not know anything, and because of our two only A wall, so I called her aunt next door. At the beginning, both of us were three tile-roofed houses. Not only the direction of the houses but also their appearances and even patterns were exactly the same, and they also shared an Adobe wall with our home. I remember every night as a child I volt in the east room on the desk to do homework, can always hear a large square next door