“含在嘴里怕化了,捧在手里怕摔了”、“棍棒底下出孝子”、“不打不成器”……这些“家教秘诀”在中国的家庭中很常见。有专家认为,过分溺爱和过分严厉已经成为中国式家教的两大通病。独生子女家庭让孩子成为全家的“中心”,全家人都围着“心肝”转,许多家长把全部爱心、过剩 “Fear in your mouth, fear of falling in your hand,” “dutiful son under the stick,” and “no fight” ... These tips for tutoring are common among Chinese families. Some experts believe that over-spoiling and excessive harshness have become the two most common problems in Chinese-style tutoring. The one-child families have children become the “center” of the whole family. The whole family turns around “heart and liver” and many parents turn all their love and excess