郑国大夫子皮想让家臣尹何独立管理一块封地,子产担心地说:“他太年轻啦,不知能否胜任啊。”子皮说:“这小伙子忠厚谨慎,我很喜爱他,他一定不会背叛我。让他到那里学习学习,他就更会处理政事了吧。”子产说:“不行。如果真心爱别人,就应该想想怎么让他好。现在您爱别人,就想让他来管事,这就好像让一个还不会拿刀的孩子去割肉,多半儿会割伤他自己呀!您所谓的‘爱’,实际是 Zheng Guogongzi want to let the independent minister Yin Ho managed a piece of land, the property is said to be worried: ”He is too young, I do not know whether it is competent ah. “ Skin said: ”This guy loyal and cautious, I love He, he will not betray me. Let him go to study and learn, he will deal with the political affairs more. “” If you really love someone, you should think about how to make him well. " You love someone and want him to manage things, it’s like getting a child who is still not to take a knife to flesh, and most of the time he will cut himself! What you call ’love’ is actually