耶鲁大学和哈佛大学联合发表的《婚姻报告》中有这样一句:“30岁以上,有大学背景的白人单身女性找到如意郎君的概率只有20%,40岁以上的概率更是只有2．6%,那些50多岁的女人被恐怖分子杀害的概率也比她们找到伴侣的可能性大”。对于单身女性来说,这是个残酷得近乎恶毒的结论,虽然50岁对我们身边的多数单女来说还是一个天文数字,可生活的冷酷性由此可窥一斑,郑智化在《水手》里面唱:“风雨中这点痛算什 The Marriage Report jointly published by Yale University and Harvard University contains the following sentence: “The probability of a single woman of 30 years of age or older who has a college background to find a good man is only 20%, and the probability of being over 40 is only 2.6 % Of those women in their 50s are more likely to be killed by terrorists than they can find a partner. ” For single women, this is a bitterly vicious conclusion. Although 50 is still an astronomical figure for most single women around us, it can be seen from the grim nature of life that Zheng Zhihua sings in Sailor : "This painful thing in the wind and rain