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中国古代主张对孩子要严教,“不打不成才”这类至理名言仍旧活跃在国人的潜意识中。从人性的角度,打孩子毕竟是非人性的。打孩子可能会让孩子变成好人,变成听话的人,甚至是愿意好好学习的人,但不能打出有创造力的人。过度的打骂反会损伤他成长的动力,挫败他的信心并淹没他天赋的创造力。绝对地不打骂孩子是不是就对呢?其实不然,对孩子冷漠与忽视比打骂要伤人。能不能打孩子,该不该打孩子,不能很简单地用YES或N0来
In ancient China, it was advocated that children should be severely punished, and "such kind of wisdom as famous motto is still active in people’s subconsciousness. From the human point of view, playing children, after all, is non-human. Playing children may turn children into good people, obedient people, even those who are willing to learn well, but they can not make creative people. Excessive scolding can hurt his growth, frustrate his confidence and overwhelm his natural creativity. Definitely not scolding children is not right? In actual fact, the children indifference and neglect than to abuse curse to hurt people. Can not beat children, should not beat children, can not be very easy to use YES or N0