“婚姻并非爱情的坟墓,而是更亲密的、灵肉合一的爱的开始。恋人之间既志同道合又情投意合,这是一件多么美妙的事。志同道合指的是共同的价值观和人生观,情投意合说的是相似的生活习惯和爱好。”这是著名作家冰心的亲身体会。1923年8月,23岁的冰心从上海启程乘坐轮船到美国留学,同去的有100多位中国学生,他们需要在大海中航行近半个月。枯燥的旅途中,冰心想起已先期 Marriage is not the tomb of love, but the beginning of a more intimate, spiritual and fleshly love.It is a wonderful thing that lovers are both like-minded and ingenious.Like-mindedness refers to common values ​​and outlook on life , Similarities and differences are similar to the habits and hobbies. "This is the famous writer Bing Xin personal experience. In August 1923, Bing Xin, 23, departed Shanghai to take a boat to study in the United States. With more than 100 Chinese students going there, they needed to sail in the sea for nearly half a month. Boring journey, Bing reminds me of advance