作为班主任,在教育孩子的过程中,往往容易走入“软暴力”的歧途。“软暴力”的危害不仅呈现出隐蔽性,而且比“硬暴力”处理方式影响更深远。所谓教育“软暴力”是指对受教育者进行的精神惩罚或心理虐待,是“教育者有意无意、经常性或习惯性发出的影响学生人格正常发展、伤害心理健康的言行”。据研究表明,经常遭受“软暴力”伤害的学生易出现焦虑、抑郁的现象,还可能因此厌学、逃学,甚至辍学,从而提早进入社会,甚至走上违法犯罪道路。“软暴力” As a teacher, it is often easy to walk into the “soft violence” in the process of educating children. The dangers of “soft violence” not only show the hidden nature but also have a far-reaching impact on the “hard violence” approach. The so-called education “soft violence ” refers to the mental punishment or psychological abuse of educators, is “Educators intentionally or unintentionally, regularly or habitually issued to affect the normal development of student personality, mental health damage words and deeds . According to the research, students who are often injured by ”soft violence“ are prone to anxiety and depression. They may also be tired of schooling, truancy or even dropping out of school, thus entering the society earlier and even embarking on the road of committing crimes. ”Soft Violence "