夫妻两地分居,孩子大多由妻子带管。由于丈夫不在身边,妻子常常会因此感到孤独和苦闷。沉重的家务负担,也往往使她神不守舍、烦燥不安。如果尚不懂事的孩子围着母亲要这要那,问东问西,母亲往往随口敷衍,一推了之,或者失去往日的平静而对孩子大发雷霆。还有些母亲则对孩子百依百顺,钟宠娇惯。殊不知,这样做的结果,只能使孩子日趋任性、娇弱,以致滋长其依赖性。 Separated husband and wife, children mostly by the wife with the tube. Because of her husband is not around, his wife often feel lonely and depressed. The heavy housework burden, often also makes her unconscionable, irritable. If a child who is not yet sensible wants this around her mother, she asks her questions about her. Mother often turns a deaf ear to what she does, or she loses her peace of past and furious with her child. Some mothers are obedient to their children, Zhong Chong spoiled. As everyone knows, the result of doing so can only make the child increasingly headstrong and delicate so as to increase his dependence.