大多数老年人都抱有患得患失心理,这其实是内心动机冲突的反映。人的活动总是受一定动机推动的,而人的动机又常常较为复杂。当这些动机不能同时得到满足的时候,就产生了动机的冲突。动机的冲突从形式上说有三类:一是双趋冲突,就是既想得到这个,又想得到那个,两样都想要,所谓鱼和熊掌想兼得;二是双避冲突,就是对两样东西都想拒绝,都不想要,所谓前怕狼后怕虎;三是趋避冲突,就是对一个东西既想要又害怕,所谓既想吃又怕烫。很明显,动机的冲突其 Most elderly people are suffering from psychological distress, which is actually a reflection of the inner motivation conflict. People’s activities are always motivated by certain motives, and human motives are often more complicated. When these motivations can not be fulfilled at the same time, motivation conflicts arise. There are three types of conflicts in motivation: one is the conflict between two trends, the one that both want to get this one, the one that wants it and the other two want it, the so-called fish and bear’s pawns have both; and the other is to avoid conflict, Want to refuse, do not want, the so-called fear of wolves scared of the tiger; the third is to avoid conflict, is both want and fear of one thing, the so-called want to eat and scared hot. Obviously, motivation conflicts